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Most people may not be aware, but the famous beauty Cleopatra was an avid fan of Dead Sea cosmetics. It was rumored that the secret of her beauty was due to these mysterious mixtures and lotions from the Dead Sea. These days, there are many companies that are utilizing the salts and the minerals of the Dead Sea and marketing it around the world. Due to this, people across the world are benefiting from these products without having to travel to the Dead Sea.

The Dead Sea is not a normal sea it looks like a lake with mixture of salts and minerals and it is lowly lying region in out planet. Because of this salts there will be high density of water, which makes all the organisms die. And you can in fact float on water without life jacket due to high water density. Researchers have extorted minerals like Calcium, Potassium and Bromide and prepared them into products which will be a substitute to the minerals and nutrients that we lost from our body due to bathing and too much pollution and dust which make our skin parched and peeling. Because of this people end up with skin problems, acne and pimples.

The skin problems can be diminished with the help of Dead Sea cosmetics which are rich in natural resources and antioxidants. The skin remedial and restoration are achievable by using these minerals. Furthermore the Dead Sea products also assist in motivation of collagen, cellulite reduction by means of creams, acne, eczema and psoriases. This supports in demising of wrinkles and ill effects of aging.

Dead Sea mud masks are also quite a rage amongst the rich and the famous these days. These mud masks play the combined role of a moisturizer, cleanser and a toner. They also help in wrinkle reduction. Beauty expert’s advice that it is essential to use an exfoliating sea salt before the application of the mud mask. There are Dead Sea kits available that can help in cleansing, toning and can comprise of all the lotions and the salts made of Dead Sea minerals.

The Dead Sea mud is a good proposition for people who are plagued with skin problems. Not only does the Dead Sea mud remove acne but it also gets rid of blemishes and aging marks. It’s a well known fact that Dead Sea cosmetics are safe to use even on an extremely sensitive skin. However, consult a skin specialist or your beautician before trying this or any other product.

Dead Sea products are not just women oriented but also for men as well. Many men prefer after shave lotions from the Dead Sea. There are many creams from the Dead Sea minerals that also help in lessening of problems like calluses and other issues of men.

Herman Wheeler is educated in the field of psychology and has focus on spiritual matters from long time. He got retired from AT&T and is working to build a strong internet business. His website dead sea products consists of soaps, lotions, etc.

Ingrown Hair Treatment Description

A post epilating or after shaving solution which eliminates ingrown hair, redness, bumps and irritation caused by shaving, waxing, tweezing and other hair removal methods.

Who Can Use It

Both men and women.

How It Is Used

For large areas, spray directly onto the affected area.

For smaller and sensitive areas such as eyebrows or bikini area apply with a cotton swab.

Apply liberally and rub in thoroughly immediately after every hair removal session. Then 2 to 3 times daily until the skin clears.

When Results Can Be Expected

Ingrown Hair Treatment eliminates ingrown hair within a few days.

Where It Can Be Used

On any area of the body where hair has been removed.

The Pain Factor

Minor stinging may be experienced due to the alcohol content. The effect is similar to most aftershave products.

To minimize this effect for sensitive skin, allow 10-30 minutes after epilating or shaving before applying Ingrown Hair Treatment.

How It Works

Ingrown Hair Treatment mildly exfoliates the outer dermal layer of skin while adding elasticity to the newly exposed hair.

This releases the trapped hair from under the constantly regenerating layers of skin.

Ingrown Hair Treatment is effective for both the treatment and prevention of ingrown hairs.

Safety Standards

Ingrown Hair Treatment does not use Acetylsalicylate (ASA) to deaden pain like some other products.

Even those allergic to Aspirin can safely use Ingrown Hair Treatment.

Ingrown Hair Treatment also provides antiseptic and antibacterial benefits to skin.

Who Makes It

Nisim International

204 Wilkinson Rd.

Brampton Ontario

Canada L6T 4M4

The Guarantee

Ingrown Hair Treatment is backed by an unconditional, indefinite, money-back guarantee.

If for any reason a user is dissatisfied, just return the remaining solution to Nisim International for a courteous refund.

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By taking the time to understand what women are looking for in a romantic partner, you can jump into the singles world confident and ready! Otherwise, you are bound to hear a lot of conversations that end with “You’re a nice guy, but” and “I think we should just be friends.”

You have enough friends. You want to find that special woman. Here are some tips for winning the battle of the sexes!

Rule 1:

Always dress for (dating) success. Don’t show up for your date dressed like you would for a night in front of the game with your buddies. A woman won’t appreciate that, no matter how laid back she is. A little hint: Women notice shoes. While you don’t have to show up in a pair of $500 designers, you should leave your beat up old Nikes at home. The same goes for clothes that don’t fit correctly.

That jacket you wore to your friend’s wedding 10 years ago may still be in good shape, but that doesn’t mean you are in good enough shape to wear it! Buy clothes that fit the size you are, not the size you wish you still were, and you will be a step ahead from the get-go. The fact that a woman looks at your clothes isn’t (necessarily) a matter of her being vain; she just wants to know you went through some kind of effort for her.

Rule 2:

Make her want to get close to you. Make sure you smell good, but don’t overdo the products. A woman doesn’t want to be able to smell your cologne as you enter the restaurant. Knock her out with your charm and winning personality, not with your aftershave.

Rule 3:

Get a real job! Or at least a plan to get one. Women don’t find it attractive if you are content to just float through life on a wave of odd job after odd job. Even if you have a job you aren’t thrilled about, have a plan for how you are going to move on to something you can really sink your teeth into. Come to the table with a healthy dose of ambition, and you’ll come across as a much more interesting, engaging person.

Rule 4:

Have something interesting to say. Yes, women like to be asked about themselves, but they don’t want to be the only one doing the talking. Know when to listen, too: She may not want to do all the talking, but you can bet she doesn’t want to do all of the listening, either.

Rule 5:

Remember she is not just one of the guys. At least not yet. She doesn’t want to hear any story that starts with “I was sooo drunk,” or “Me and my ex-girlfriend were on our way to Paris when…” Stories about your past are fine, and even welcome, but try to keep drunken escapades and stories of exes, particularly ex-bashing stories, out of your first-date repertoire.

Rule 6:

You aren’t going to get some. Or at least that’s the attitude you should have on a first date. Never go into a dating situation expecting sex; a woman will think you are much more worthy of her time, and her body, if you are interested in more than the color of her sheets. Come on too strong and you’ll risk being stonewalled by your potential dream girl.

Rule 7:

Manners never go out of style. Be someone she is proud to sit in a fine restaurant with. That means no belching, no licking your fingers, and no inappropriate language. She wants to get stares because she’s on the arm of a handsome, elegant man, not because her date is picking his teeth with a match book!

Rule 8:

Be willing to have fun! Have ideas of where you can go on dates, and don’t expect her to plan everything. The date should be a combined effort. Even if you just suggest a restaurant or offer an opinion about which movie to see, your date will take your opinions for enthusiasm about your date.

Rule 9:

Show up on time. It may sound simple, but leaving a woman waiting sends the message that she, and your date, are not important to you. And if one of life’s little emergencies happens and you are unavoidably running late, never underestimate the power of a phone call.

Rule 10:

Flowers never hurt. It may sound old-fashioned, but girls like surprises, and bringing flowers on a date will pretty much always be a hit. Even if you don’t know her favorite flower, or even if flowers aren’t her thing, the fact that you thought to show up at her door with something special for her will immediately give you brownie points. And if you take off the plastic that the supermarket wrapped the flowers in and present them as if you had just picked them, you’ll be doing one better.

Here’s to some great dates and success in love!

(c) 2008 Deborrah Cooper. Deborrah has been involved in the relationships field for close to 20 years. She’s authored dozens of relationship articles and writes a weekly advice column using the pen name “Ms. HeartBeat.” Her works appear on the website AskHeartBeat.Com, which focuses on modern dating issues and relationships for both teens and adults. Her Top Black Books of 2007 award winning dating guide Sucka Free Love – How to Avoid Dating The Dumb, The Deceitful, The Dastardly, The Dysfunctional and The Deranged! provides witty, street-smart and hilarious insight into the toughest issues facing singles today. Find out more about or order your copy by clicking on this link Sucka Free Love.Com

The first time I suspected my boyfriend of it, I quickly dismissed the thought as ridiculous, but then I actually caught him in the act! One night just before bed I noticed the bathroom light on and went to shut it off, only to find my boyfriend standing in front of the mirror applying my expensive eye firming lotion. It was all I could do not to laugh but instead I quietly returned to bed and never let on as to what I had just seen. Knowing my man cared about his skin may have seemed strange at first, but in reality, it made perfect sense. Skin care for men may not be at the top of their priority list, but believe me it does make the list at some level, why wouldn’t they care about it, I know I do!

Skin care for men is a growing industry many name brand companies known for creating beauty products for women are now getting in on…healthy skin is the latest trend.

Men’s skin care use to mean aftershave and hand salve for dry hands but today there are whole lines of products designed to soothe, rejuvenate, moisturize, and protect men’s skin. While your man may not admit to you that he worries about the appearance of his skin, most men today are making an effort to reduce signs of aging such as wrinkles and age spots. In all the ways us women worry, so do men, they just are not as open about discussing it as we do. I do not foresee men discussing the newest eye creams available while drinking beer at the pub, but even if they do not discuss it, we know they are thinking about it.

Men and women’s skin is not the same; therefore, skin care for men requires products designed specifically to meet their needs. Inflammation and redness on the facial area are problems men face as a result of daily shaving, which women don’t. In addition, like women men have varied skin types that can be dry, oily, combination, acne-prone, sensitive, or normal. Each skin type requires special treatment. Finding a product which uses only all-natural ingredients, which is fragrant free, SPF free and does not contain ingredients which have the potential to be allergens or irritants is important to assuring your products will do the job they were designed to do without causing you additional problems.

Like any health or beauty product on the market, you have to be weary of its contents. Many products contain preservatives, fillers or low-cost alternative ingredients, which producers claim, will offer the same results as the more expensive products but at a lower cost, this just is not true. High quality ingredients create noticeable results you will not get from generic products full of preservatives and fillers. Even name brand companies you are familiar with often use ingredients that are ineffective, useless or even damaging to your skin. What your skin needs is all-natural products that will heal and protect your skin from the normal irritants and toxins we encounter every day. Cost, effectiveness and safety are all aspects you should identify before trying any skin care product.

Everything you put onto your skin eventually makes its way into your bloodstream; therefore, it is just as important to know what it is you are putting on your skin as to what you are ingesting. Having a skin care product for men, that is safe enough to eat, guarantees they are free of contaminants you do not want in your bloodstream. It may sound odd, but think about it, it really makes sense! In addition, we all know men will eat just about anything.

You know the men in your life care about their appearance, their clothing, their hair line, going grey, but just like us women, men also care about fighting off signs of aging which can reveal their true age, or worse, make them look even older.

Men skin care is no longer a taboo idea like it once was. So maybe your manly-man is not ready to admit how much he enjoys having smooth, firm skin, his desire to avoid wrinkles, puffiness or dark circles under his eyes; but just like us women, men are also worried about their appearance and want to try to keep their healthy, youthful appearance.

Men’s skin care products, which are specifically created with the needs of men, not women in mind, can give your man the edge he is looking for to stay looking good, for you and for himself. So do your man a favor and get him the products you know he wants, but is not willing to admit to yet. Because we all know… when you look good, you feel good.

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It happened again, your clothes were ruined by the dryer! Burn holes in your underwear and your other articles of clothing, torn and shredded. What is going on? You dryer might need some fixin’ and here’s what you will need to replace.

If your clothes are getting ripped, cut or torn, your dryer probably has a felt-like seal at the front and/or rear of the dryer drum that has worn out, is torn or is missing. Your clothes might be getting caught in the gap between the clothes drum and the front or rear of the dryer interior. When a clothes dryer seal wears out, you need to replace it.

Also, check the lint filter or lint trap; it might be worn or showing sharp edges. Your clothes could possible be getting caught on this during the cycle. Be sure to replace this part immediately.

If your clothing comes out marked up, the support parts for the dryer drum might be worn out, thus, throwing the drum off-balances and getting your clothes pinched in between parts of the dryer. Check the glides, rollers, wheels, and seals for wear. Replace the whole set of glides, rollers, or wheels if one or more are bad. You will also want to check the rear support for any play in it. Sometimes the rear drum bearing gets worn out.

If your laundry is coming out smelling smoky, your dryer may have had a small lint fire inside the cabinet, leaving a smoky odor in the clothes drum and on your clothes. Even though there is a lint filter in your dryer, it doesn’t catch all the lint. You need to check inside the cabinet at least yearly to look for and clean out any lint build-up. Check the inside cabinet and inner ductwork of your dryer. A dryer vent lint brush will help you reach inside the machine and vent to brush off and remove any built up lint. Also, be sure to clean out the lint trap after every use.

A lint fire is nothing to take lightly; many house fires are caused by lint build up in dryers and their vents. According to this 2005 article from CBS News, 15,000 house fires are caused by dryers every year. Keep your family safe by checking for lint buildup in the cabinet at least yearly. Be sure to check your outside exhaust vent for blockages. Install a smoke alarm near your dryer for added protection. Have a professional appliance repair person check the dryer for damage caused by any lint fires and to cleanout any lint from any pipes connected to the dryer.

Also, don’t put items in the dryer such as garage rags stained with motor oil or gasoline, and aprons, dish towels, or napkins stained with cooking oil. Even if the items was washed previously, some residue might still remain and possible cause a combustion.

Other items that aren’t meant for the dryer: anything made of rubber or plastic, such as baby diaper pants, bath mats, even foam-padded bras (bras and other delicates should be air-dried anyways to prevent them from bending and losing their shape!)

A signal that your dryer might be becoming clogged with lint, your clothes just aren’t coming out dry. Clean your dryer with a link brush or call a professional to have it cleaned for you. You might not need a new dryer, just have it cleaned.

If your clothes are coming out all wrinkled, do not let your clothes sit in the dryer after the cycle has ended – remove the clothes promptly from the dryer and either hang or fold them. Also, dry only one load at a time; don’t pack the dryer too full. Do not dry heavy items with light items. Use the permanent press cycle to give clothes a cool down cycle at the end to reduce wrinkling.

Make sure you are also washing the clothes in the correct temperature (water that is too hot can also cause clothes to wrinkle). Be sure to read and follow the care instructions on the clothing item’s label for best results.

Finally, if it’s a little wrinkled, you can always rewash and dry the clothes again.

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My husband has this new officemate. He said he looks pretty well and if you were not from their office you would not know at first glance that he is just an employee of their company. My husband said he looks just as made up as their boss is. He is always in a neat and seemingly expensive polo shirt and pants. His shoes are always clean and shining.

On his part, when they asked, he just acknowledged all the effort his wife exerts for them to look just as well. He said his wife is such a wonderful homemaker. She would spend the day making sure everything in the house is well and neat. She would make sure that their clothes are clean and the shoes too!

Whenever she buys stuff for the house, she makes sure that it will be well utilized. The appliances for instance are bought because of quality and durability and not just because they look rather great.

One day, this officemate of my husband said that they are moving in to our neighborhood. They are planning to have a house warming party. They also invited us.

At first I was hesitant thinking that his wife would be hard to deal with. We are exactly of the opposite poles I do not think I could ever befriend her. My husband however insisted that we come as a sign of respect and to also welcome the new neighbors in the neighborhood.

So the Saturday after that, we went to their house and we were humbled by the good greeting the couple gave us.

I looked at everything in the living room. It was pretty arranged. I can see his wife is a bit of obsessive-compulsive when it comes to arranging the house. It is very evident in the way she would handle all the arrangement. The place is adorned by expensive-looking furniture. I especially came to notice the tiff any style lamp placed side by side with the couch. They looked really expensive.

The Tiffany style lamps she had were, like all other lamps, intricately designed. As a matter of fact, these lamps made the whole living room even more classy and elegant. I exclaimed that the Tiffany style lamps they have are wonderful.

The couple just smiled and the husband acknowledged his wifes taste. The wife in turn, humbly said that the Tiffany style lamps she have were just bought from a bazaar. She said she was luck to have the Tiffany style lamps with her.

With a couple of chats, we decided to call it a night. I proved just how easy it is to befriend Loise, the wife of Joe, my husbands officemate and the new couple in the neighborhood. Now, I did not only got to have a nice experience with the Tiffany style lamps they have, the thought of having them as new friends was the best part of the day too!

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On March 13, 2006, I became a WIFEpreneur. Only, I didn’t know it at the time.

It was a day like any other. My husband, who worked full-time at night, had come home, cleaned up, and left for his part time day job. My older son was at work-he was saving to buy his first home and to start a new business. My younger one was studying for his college mid-term exams. And, I was taking advantage of spring break to catch up on my own post-graduate coursework and to grade my own undergraduate students’ mid-term exams.

I hardly noticed when my younger son left the house. And I had no idea he had been gone before he returned and announced that we had to “get to the hospital, now!” Frankly, I laughed and shook him off, because nothing about his demeanor suggested anything was wrong. He was somber, but calm, as he made his announcement. So I simply laughed it off and told him that I was too busy for joking right now. Then he said, in a more insistent tone of voice: “moms, they’re taking pops to the hospital. He had a stroke…and we have to meet them there.”

I don’t remember feeling anything after his words finally sunk in. I only remember my son taking my car keys and telling me that he would drive. That’s when I noticed that my hands were shaking…and I started to cry.

During the drive to the hospital, I used the silence to mentally prepare myself for the worst.

Questions ran through my mind, from the profound to the trivial, like: Where am I going to bury him? How do I tell his mom? Oh God, where did he put her phone number-I can’t remember it-What is it again? What do I do about graduate school-how am I going to afford it without his income-do I dropout? What do I do about the boys? How do I help them get on with their lives? How do I stay strong for them-or should I let them see my weakness? Do I cry…or is it better for them if I hold it all in? Where am I going to get money to pay for a funeral-can I get a funeral loan? What would he want me to say on his gravestone-what would he want his final words to be? And, on and on…

Next, my thoughts moved to the why me, why now, and the if only, questions: Why now? I thought. I only had one more year of grad school then I could start working as a fulltime professor and take the financial pressure off him. We were finally seeing a light at the end of the tunnel. After struggling so long to make ends meet, we were finally going to be debt-free by the end of the year; my husband was finally going to be able to stop working two jobs; and my boys were about to start their own lives-one as a new homeowner and entrepreneur, and the other-as a new college graduate. Why now-just when things were going so well?

Then I started to review the day’s events. I recalled how we just talked about him getting a check-up that morning before he left for the second job. He hated going to the doctor, so I had to tell him that it was non-negotiable. I told him that I was making the appointment so his only choice was whether he wanted a morning or afternoon appointment. We ended that discussion with an agreement between us that he would get a check-up if I would get one too. So, I thought: maybe it’s my fault. If only I had made him get that check-up yesterday or the day before instead of waiting…. maybe things would be different now.

Then I started to get angry: My husband was such a good and kind person. What did we ever do to deserve this? It’s not fair, I thought. He worked so hard all his life-to just die like that with nothing to show for it, just when he was finally his turn to get a break out of life. It just didn’t seem fair.

Then I started to bargain with God. I begged him to please let him live. I asked him to kill me instead. Then I remember saying, “I can deal with anything…just as long as he’s alive. At that point, it didn’t matter to me what condition he was in; I just wanted him to live.

Well, my prayers were answered. My husband lived. But, I lied to God. It DID matter what condition he was in…

New questions have since come up that I have had to find answers to, and it’s this search for the answers that made me a WIFEpreneur who can now help others in a situation similar to this to survive the experience.

The lessons I learned as a WIFEpreneur helped me discover-and create-answers to some of the PRACTICAL mundane questions that were important to me, if I was ever going to be able to get on with the business of life. Some of these questions were:

1. How do I pay for the bills associated with his care: hospital, rehab, wheelchair, transportation, special food, medication, special equipment and medical supplies, speech therapy, occupational therapy, heart and neurosurgeon follow-up, blood tests and other diagnostic tests, and so on…

2. How do I deal with the Medicaid merry-go-round?

3. How do get help to fix his food; bathe him and help him use the toilet; retrain him to remember things; stop him from doing things he used to do-still thinks he can do-but now cannot without hurting himself?

4. How do I get help with changing the oil and fixing the car, cutting the grass, registering the car, clearing the garage, fixing the DVD; backing up my data and re-storing the computer after yet another crash?

5. How do I get over feeling abandoned and isolated and overwhelmed? How do I deal with getting sick and depressed myself? How do I get over feeling like I’m letting my husband down when I don’t give him the attention he needs because I have to work? How do I pay attention to my work when I have to care for my husband? How do I find a job that will allow me to make a good living and still leave me with time and flexibility I need to care for my husband? How do I ask for help at work without seeming like I’m using my husband’s illness as an excuse?

6. Who do I talk to about whether or not I should quit graduate school? Who do I talk to about how to help my sons overcome the toll it taking on them?

But, what exactly is a WIFEpreneur? What is it about searching for the answers to such obvious questions that makes you one-and how do you know you’ve become one?

But, most of all, you’re probably thinking: what possible help can becoming one be to me when I’m the sole caretaker or single-parent of a sick or impaired person; or to me, a working mother or father trying to earn extra part-time income to make ends meet; or, to me, a person with a hidden impairment that will always prevent me from getting what I deserve; and what about me-someone who simply has a missionary zeal for a cause and is torn between the need to pursue this calling-and the demands of the everyday business of life-what good will becoming a WIFEpreneur be to me?

If you’re in one of these situations or know someone who is, I do understand why you might be thinking along these lines.

So, for you, the bottomline probably is this: What lessons have I learned as a WIFEpreneur that can help YOU discover-and create-answers to some of the PRACTICAL mundane questions that are important or relevant to you, so that you can get on with the business of your life?

Well, let me answer it this way. You’re probably quite familiar with Robert Kennedy’s famous quote that: some men see things as they are and say why; I dream things that never were and say, why not? Then a WIFEpreneur can be thought of as one who sees HOW things that are, can become what never was, and asks-who?

To put it more simply, I define a WIFEpreneur as a solutions oriented collector of words and communicator of ideas for the business of life. Someone who is able to move persons from where they are to where they want to go-but have never been-by connecting them with the best words & ideas of others who have gone before them, and helping them make best personal use of these ideas.

Essentially, this is an entrepreneur who can speak the language of ideas, which is the ability to listen to words and see their ideas; and conversely, see ideas and hear their words.

When we look at language as simply the stitching together of ideas in a symbolic form that makes them tangible and useful, we can better appreciate the value of someone who is skilled at translating the ideas captured by a set of words and putting them into other word forms that make these ideas consumable by those most in need of them.

A person with these unique skills is in the best position to help persons interpret the ideas symbolized by the words they consume (whether from family and friends, self-help products, or the opinions of experts) and to use these ideas to imagine solutions to the problems that de-stabilize their lives and bring them turmoil, uncertainty, and chaos.

Yeah, nice, you may be thinking-but what does THAT mean? How does it get me where I want to go? How does it actually HELP me DO anything to make my situation better? For example, how does it help me pay the bills or fix the car, or get me out of my depression?

The answers are simple-but not easy.

By going through the PROCESS of reframing my why me questions into why not me questions, and moving from these why’s into the how then questions: how can I become what I could be and learn to do what I couldn’t do? And, then finally arriving to the finding the who’s to help me become what I could be, and do what I couldn’t do, types of questions, I actually helped myself find practical solutions-that had eluded me before-to some of the problems contained in my 6 questions above.

I was able to find these solutions by paying attention to the ideas behind the words of advice that people offered-whether their intentions were good or bad. I learned to decode these ideas and to put the best ones to the most practical use for me. And, I have an unwavering certainty that I will be able to find solutions to the problems that remain, by repeating the same process.

And, you can do this with the same certainty too.

Now then, here is an overview of the creative process that can take you from where you are now to where you want to be:

1. Reframing the Why s into Why nots

2. Moving from Whys to HOWs

3. Finding Your WHOs

Of course, the trick is doing what you know. So, now that you know the process, the trick is HOW do you do it? I’ll be talking more about how to go through each of the steps in this process over the weeks to come.

Thus, if you are also facing a similar life-changing event like mine, and it has left you chronically sick or impaired; or, if you are the sole caretaker of someone with such a chronic or disabling illness; or, if you’re the friend or loved one of someone who is facing this type of situation and would like to know how to help and support them; or, if you are the single-parent, the working mom or dad, the person with the hidden impairment, or the one with a cause, that I mentioned earlier-or you care about someone in one of these situations-then visit the Biziwife blog often for practical words & ideas that you can use to transform your life or the life of someone you care about.

Delores A. Edelen calls herself a WIFEpreneur. She is in the business of searching for words & ideas to help those who face major health and financial challenges, answer their most important questions about the practical business of everyday life, and publishing these ideas on her blog at http://www.biziwife.com She also designs regular live tele-trainings to help them use these ideas in the best ways for them.

Some of these signs of a cheating spouse are “tongue in cheek” while others are tell tale signs that commonly appear with a cheating husband or cheating wife. There is no copyright. Feel free to forward to those who might be interested. But please don’t change anything.

Signs of a Cheating Spouse:

1) You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you’ve had a vasectomy.

2) Mutual friends start acting strangely toward you. (They either know about the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible wife or girlfriend you are.)

3) Your cheating husband or wife stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.

4) Sets up a new e-mail account and doesn’t tell you about it.

5) He leaves the house in the morning smelling like Irish Spring and returns in the evening smelling like Safeguard.

6) She joins the gym and begins a rigorous workout program.

7) She buys a cell phone and doesn’t let you know.

He sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to his office.

9) The cheating husband carries condoms, and you are on the pill.

10) Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.

11) Deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.

12) He becomes “accusatory,” asking if you are being true to him, usually out of guilt.

13) Raises hypothetical questions such as, “Do you think it’s possible to love more than one person at a time?”

14) He buys himself new underwear.

15) He insists the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.

16) The cheating wife stops wearing her wedding ring.

17) Has a sudden desire to be helpful with the laundry.

18) Has unexplained scratches or bruises on his or her neck or back.

19) Suddenly wants to try new love techniques.

20) He/she fairly suddenly stops having sex with you.

21) He/she suddenly wants more sex, more often.

22) Supposedly works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub.

23) Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.

24) You find out by accident he or she took vacation day or personal time off from work – but supposedly worked on those days.

25) Shows a sudden interest in a different type of music.

26) Spouse’s co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence.

27) Has a sudden preoccupation with his or her appearance.

28) Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer, especially after you have gone to bed.

29) He throws up a lot because he just ate at his mistress’s house and had to eat the dinner you prepared when he got home.

30) Your spouse is away from home, either nights or on trips, more than previously.

31) His/her clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume or after-shave. You see lipstick on your husband’s shirt.

32) The amount of money being deposited into your checking account drops off.

33) You find items of intimate apparel or other small gift-type items that you did not give your spouse.

34) Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is “touchy” and easily moved to anger.

35) You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your voice.

36) He/she loses attention in the activities in the home.

37) Your intuition (gut feeling) tells you that something is not right.

38) He/she has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home.

39) She uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.

40) She has a “glow” about her.

41) Atypical erratic behavior.

42) He sneaks out of the house.

43) She sleeps with her purse by the bed.

44) She goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later.

45) He tells you that you can get hold of him at a different telephone number.

46) The telltale sign of a cheating spouse? Having to ask that question in the first place.

Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach, has helped hundreds of couples over the past two decades heal from the agony of extramarital affairs and survive infidelity. Visit his website at: http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com

If you have recently added a new addition to your family then let me be the first to say congratulations. There is nothing more wonderful or exciting than becoming a parent.

Though it is great and wonderful to be a new parent, many fathers quickly loose that excitement and want to return to their pre baby sex routine. Most men are very disappointed to find out that their sex life is not going to return to normal right away.

If this is your first child then I am sure you are not familiar with how sex after a baby works for women. Here are a few helpful tips to help you out.

Give your wife space. Chances are she is not emotionally or physically ready to have sex. Having a baby is a very draining process. Have compassion towards your wife. Don’t be selfish. After all she just carried your baby for 9 months and went through several hours of labor to give birth. Your wife needs time to heal. Doctors recommend you wait at least a month before having sex after you have had a baby. Please know that every woman is different. Your wife may be ready to have sex much sooner or even much later than the average recommended time frame. Just play it by hear. Your wife will let you know when she is ready.

Do not have high expectations right away. Having a baby is a very overwhelming experience, especially for moms. Remember she has to feed the baby late at night. She has to get up with the baby when the baby is crying at all times of the morning. These things can and will prevent your wife from wanting to have sex. She will also not be able to get her normal daily tasks completed. Things such as cleaning the house or getting dinner prepared will all take a back seat to her having to care for the newborn baby.

The best way to get your sex life back to where you want it to be is to help your wife out. Do the dishes and cook dinner. Don’t let your wife feel completely helpless and overwhelmed after giving birth. Pitch in. Helping out will give your wife less things she has to do and give her more time to possibly be intimate with you.

Do not push your wife into having sex if she is not ready to do so. Remember she needs to heal. Also, if your baby is sleeping in your room then your wife will probably not feel comfortable being intimate. Take all factors into consideration. Be patient. Take this time to “wow” your wife all over again like you did when you first met her. Be romantic. Prepare a nice dinner. Send her flowers. Let her know you think she is the best mom in the world. These little things could possible get your wife back in the mood for sex much sooner.

For more articles, tips and information on ways you can improve your sex life visit Have Better Sex Now.

Divorce, so painful physically and emotionally. Here are a few tips that can make your communications easier before or after a divorce, especially if your partner or lawyer dominates the conversation.Here is a tip to alleviate the problem. Ask the person to “share time.” Sharing time can be alot of things such as explaining your opinion, or taking time for space and not saying anything, yet it is your time.

1. Each of you talk for a designated time. It can be 2 – 5 minutes. This will let each person have a designated time to be heard. We all want to be heard and understood. Come to a decision how long each wants to talk. The listener is the timer.

2. The listener does not respond verbally but with silent empathic listening. Ask yourself silently, what principles or values does the speaker want? Maybe it is to be heard, ease, peaceful communications, emotional or physical safety, financial stability Also guess what emotions are being developed such as fear, emotional or physical safety, respect, consideration, ease.

3. After a person talks the listener can offer verbal empathy back for 15 – 30 seconds It would look like, Are you wanting to be heard? Are you wanting more respect? These are guesses and are one guess at a time. Let them answer. This is a powerful option you may try and will bring your connection to one of trust. DO NOT express the emotions you are guessing, only the values.

4. Then change roles and repeat the process.

5: If the conversation becomes heated or one of you can’t listen, take a time out from a few minutes to a day to cool down.

6: Try this first with a friend and practice the guesses. Make up any rules that work for both of your needs and boundaries. It will probably bring your friendship closer.

* Remember to set your intention to want to understand the other. Visualize a movie in your mind, a peaceful communication with the other where both of you are heard and can listen to the other. It is very possible with this technique.

Divorce is never an easy subject, yet Rick Goodfriend wants communication with others to be easier if the marriage can not be saved. Mr. Goodfriend is founder of World Empathy Day where you can find many more tips on relationship communications and how to solve difficult challenges. More information is at http://www.walkyourtalk.org or videos at http://www.youtube.com/rickiis Easier communication with anybody is possible with the proactive skills Mr. Goodfriend teaches. Rick is also a co-creator and host of a television show on proactive communication and resides in Santa Barbara, California where he continues to surf and hike nearby.